It is true, we are constantly exposed between these two options, telling the truth or somehow "disguising" it so that the other person can feel good. I feel that in one way or another the truth will always be brought to light, so I support that the truth must always be told (this I learned over time, which does not exclude me from ever having lied). Now, another important thing is the way I tell the truth, there are different ways of doing it. You can tell the truth and not necessarily looking for the other person to feel bad, simply in order to advise or try to help you improve, then things change. I consider that to have the audacity to tell another person that "it is not good" in such a thing, must necessarily imply that you are good at doing such a thing, otherwise it would be a rather inconsequential comment.
Of course, the truth often hurts, but it is something we need to live and realize how is really ours in itself, otherwise, how could we realize this? We must value that person who despite everything always tells us the truth, is more, we find few people like this currently.
Another factor to take into account is what person is telling us the truth, because if it is a stranger who throws a comment just to hurt us we must be quite critical when considering whether that comment is true or not.
To finish, I consider that life itself is a constant process of learning, and on the way you learn to know yourself with your own defects and virtues, and well, if you ever made a mistake and they made you notice, you should only Consider the situation, try to amend your mistake, overcome it and keep going thinking always positive! :)
The best vibes in the world for those who are reading this blog!
Thank you for reading :)
Of course, the truth often hurts, but it is something we need to live and realize how is really ours in itself, otherwise, how could we realize this? We must value that person who despite everything always tells us the truth, is more, we find few people like this currently.
Another factor to take into account is what person is telling us the truth, because if it is a stranger who throws a comment just to hurt us we must be quite critical when considering whether that comment is true or not.
To finish, I consider that life itself is a constant process of learning, and on the way you learn to know yourself with your own defects and virtues, and well, if you ever made a mistake and they made you notice, you should only Consider the situation, try to amend your mistake, overcome it and keep going thinking always positive! :)
The best vibes in the world for those who are reading this blog!
Thank you for reading :)
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